It’s raining Soul Mates

Single and seeking your Soul Mate - Someone special to “fulfil your Destiny”

Let’s look at finding a soul mate. Our Example: a woman who feels she would love to have a new man in her life. Importantly, if this is a scenario for you - single and looking for a partner, you might want to do the following exercise as you continue reading.

Our example is a woman seeking her partner. One of the first things is to describe the man you are looking for. “What are you looking for in your soul mate? What traits and characteristics would you like them to have?”

“I would love to be involved with someone who is funny, creative, family-oriented, financially successful, generous and handsome.” The list could go on for much longer, but we will start here. At this stage ask “Who in your life is funny to you right now?”

There is either one person or many: a friend, a relative, a colleague, a client, your mentor that you find funny. Go on down the list and identify people (in our case particularly men) who demonstrate each of the traits listed, being specific and listing as many as necessary to be convinced that the trait you are seeking already surrounds your life.

It will soon become apparent that what you are seeking has already been abundantly supplied in your life. Just as you encompass all these traits, so do the people around you, and those traits you think are attractive are already in your life… being displayed to you in the form you seek by many in your life, instead of just one.

“If you could have this all in one person, would you really want that?” The Universe in its wisdom conserves perfection: If you have all you seek in the form of one person, then it is likely that the many who bring it to you currently, will disperse. Is this really what you want?

Do you really want all this in one person, or is it a fantasy you have held on to for too long?

At this point you may well rethink your position: “Do I really want these traits in just one person, or do I like that there are many representations of what I want in my life already?”

What are the benefits of this exercise?

Have you ever tried to borrow money from a bank, the first thing they look for is savings or collateral? If you have none of what the bank is looking for, they are unlikely to consider your request. The same principle applies when you are looking to attract a partner.

Have you ever heard someone say they found the love of their life when they stopped looking? You only look for that which you think is missing.

When you realise your soul mate could be in your life right now, you will exude an air of confidence and fulfilment that no potential partner will be likely to resist.

Dr John Demartini
Reprinted from Conscious Living Issue 73